The data also imply that homophobia is related both to women’s and men’s identity formation, but that there are considerable variations in groups. Although the causality cannot be determined, data reveal that direct identification is, in addition to attractions and sexual practices, highly linked to non-sexual social characteristics such as religiosity and views towards sex. This shows that straight identity is partly attributable to a direct culture and a direct privilege, not just homophobia. For example, some females date boys in secondary schools and then later find they are more attracted to their own gender, romantically and sexually.
Over time, many people will find out more about their sexual orientation.
This differs from not having sex with someone (abstinence or celibacy).